Nuance is necessary

When we’re triggered and old trauma shows up, we have the tendency to think in black and white. Right or wrong. With me’ or ‘against me’.

When we are triggered

We close off,


protect ourselves, 

because we feel unsafe.

What we need 

We need curiosity

We need nuance

We need to listen

Because we can only learn by listening, not by talking.

How to deal with being triggered

To be able to stay in connection with ourselves, and our surroundings, we need to feel ‘SAFE ENOUGH’.

For that to happen, we need to work through our trauma and understand our beliefs and behavioural patterns. 

PLEASE take good care of yourself, and the people around you, by doing THE WORK of understanding yourself, and developing awareness, curiosity and compassion.


I’d be happy to guide you along this path.

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Hi, my name is Marjolein

Hi, my name is Marjolein

I offer guidance around intimacy, sexuality, burnout prevention & recovery, tension & stress release. Tap into your inner wisdom!

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